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Communication Activities

The activities on this and the next page practice the speaking and listening skills you have learned in this chapter.

Telephone Variations

You probably remember the childhood game “telephone,” in which you pass a message down a chain of people to discover how it changes. The variations in this game, given below, will help you explore how communication can break down.

Your Turn Form a group of five or more people. Play telephone by having the first person whisper a message to the second, who whispers it to the next, and so on. The last person repeats the message aloud. Try these variations:

  1. Have each person write down the message before repeating it. Afterward, track where changes happened as the message was passed along. Discuss reasons for changes.
  2. Play the game in a loud setting, such as the gym or the cafeteria. Compare the resulting final message with the one in the original version of the game.
  3. Include one nonsense word in the original message (for example, “glimbot” or “gripshun”). Trace it to see how it changes and how other words change.
 

Active Listeners

As you have seen, active listeners use their brains as well as their ears. The following activity will help you listen more actively.

Your Turn After a lecture or presentation, perform one or more of the following to deepen your thinking.

  • List the 5 W’s and H (who, what, where, when, why, and how) about the lecture.
  • Paraphrase the main point of the lecture.
  • Find one idea in the lecture that relates to an idea you are learning about in another class.
  • Write at least one idea you can infer from the lecture.
  • Ask yourself why this information is important and answer the question.
  • Evaluate the support for the main point, indicating why it is or isn’t reliable.
  • Evaluate the effectiveness of the lecture in conveying the main point.
  • Compose a response to the lecture, indicating what you still wonder about the topic.
 

Introductions

The whole of the communication situation is present in an introduction between two people.

Your Turn Introduce yourself to a classmate, telling who you are and why you are introducing yourself. Have the person reply, saying who he or she is. Afterward, analyze the communication situation by defining the sender, message, medium, receiver, and context of each introduction.

 
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Situational Speaking

As you have seen, different speaking situations require different levels of formality. The following activity helps you explore different levels of formality.

Your Turn Act out the following scenes with a partner. Continue acting for about a minute before shifting scenes. Change your formality level as you go.

  1. A teenager (partner 1) talks to a police officer (partner 2)
  2. A restaurant server (partner 1) talks to a patron (partner 2)
  3. The president of the United States (partner 1) talks to a bodyguard (partner 2)
  4. A patient (partner 1) talks to a surgeon (partner 2)
  5. A scientist (partner 1) talks to another scientist (partner 2)
 

Conversation Chart

A conversation chart is a record not only of what is said, but also of what is implied and communicated in nonverbal ways.

Your Turn Listen to a brief conversation in a movie. Create a conversation map by filling in the spaces of a chart like the one below. Quickly summarize what each person says and implies without saying it, and record any facial expressions or body language involved.

 

Conversation Chart

Speaker

What Is Said

What Is Implied

Expression

Body Language

Paul

Have you seen my favorite tie?

Did you move it?

Eyebrows arched

Questioning

Anne

No.

Am I the keeper of your ties?

Face blank

Small head shake

Paul

It was in my closet yesterday—

You must have moved it.

Thinking

Staring in closet

Anne

Did you check on the floor?

It’s probably still in your closet.

Matter-of-fact

Arms crossed

Paul

Was someone in my closet?

I think you know where it is.

Eyebrows scrunched

Hands on hips

Anne

Yep. I’m raising a goat in your closet. It ate your tie.

You’re being ridiculous.

Laughing

Confronting

Paul

Oh, here it is, on the floor.

Never mind. I found it.

Smiling sheepishly

Shrugging

Anne

I’d better talk to that goat. Slacker.

Look harder before accusing me.

Shaking head

Walking away